The second love note is here and I am so excited for you to read this! Don’t forget to hit subscribe as you do and of course, share your thoughts with me.
Life isn’t about competing with the people around you or trying to meet up standards, but rather growing into someone better and stronger than who you were a year ago.
Stop trying to live other people's lives. No one shows or promotes their hardest moments, Moments where they were completely confused or broken. No one likes to talk about that. So baby, remember that although everyone looks like they know what they are doing, We are still figuring life out.
Stop forcing yourself into other people's shoes and respect your journey and process, This isn’t about time— How fast or slow it takes to grow; It’s about how satisfied and content you will be after all the struggle and strain.
Now would also be a good time to remember that some people are not who or what you need to grow, surround yourself with people who understand you and are willing to support you and help you grow, not people who think your goals and dreams are unrealistic.
Remember to forgive yourself too, for any and every time you doubted yourself and thought you could not face life, that you would not make it. Sixteen-year-old you would be so proud right now.
You are not to blame for the things you could not control, You are not to blame for anyone’s wrong perception of you, stop allowing people to define and control you with their words, you don’t control what happens around you or to you, but you control how you react to it, That’s all that matters.
In all, Remember that you are neither doing too much nor too less, Your pace is enough, your effort is valid, and your emotions deserve to be respected and felt. So remember this as you face this new week “Each day there’s a choice; You either repeat yesterday’s mistakes or evolve from them” which will you choose?
It has something to do with me, but now I know it wasn't my fault, I am happy to say I'm okay now
You spoke to directly to me. I had hold unto this for the week and hopefully the rest of the time. Thank you 🙏.